Like many couples in the Lifestyle... my husband and I have all our adventures together. We feel there is something ugly about secret infidelities... and we have always had difficulty understanding when they happen among our "vanilla" friends. It is especially discomforting when it happens within couples who would excellent candidates for swinging... but they refuse to admit to themselves that they would like to open their relationships a little bit. For fear they would have to be honest with themselves and their partners about their desires... they end up doing something stupid that destroys their relationship.
We have also acknowledged that there may be temptation out there for both of us. My husband is a very successful man. His great looks... warm personality and sense of humor... not to mention his yacht... and his Mercedes convertible... and the way he wears his success like a favorite comfortable jacket... mean there is no shortage of attention from attractive women of every age... even if it's for the wrong reason.
Even though I have recently crossed over the border into my early forties... I have been blessed by excellent genetics and a lifestyle that keeps me fit....