To understand why people become involved with swinging, one must understand what swinging is, what the lifestyle is about what one would experience as a couple.
The swinglifestyle or lifestyle as swingers call it is about being sexually liberated as a couple, and for both partners to engage in a soft or full swap sexual activity with another couple.
To enjoy the lifestyle to the fullest you need to ask yourself if you and your partner are soft swap or if you are full swap. Knowing this before you swing will allow you to enjoy the lifestyle to the fullest without any hidden surprises. Soft swap is when you and your partner interact with each other in the presence of another couple interacting.
Full swap is where everyone in the room agree to a full partner sharing session. Some people get into the lifestyle to fulfill a sexual fantasy for themselves and their partner. Some couples want to spice up their sex life by entering a soft swap and becoming turned on with another couple watching, or even daring to enter into a full swap for the extreme excitement. Regardless which swap a couple enters, they enter the lifestyle for fun, and excitement, it is not uncommon for couples to meet other couples and become lifelong friends with fellow swingers, some decide to remain friends without a sexual connection. Swingers also hold the record for the lowest divorce rate versus a non monogamous couple.