ACDCACDC

A Person or persons who enjoys sexual activity involving both the same sex and the opposite sex; Also known as Bi- or Bisexual. These swingers tend to be free spirits and enjoy swinger sex more and are more sexually liberated with little to no reservations. (See also BiSexual)

All CulturesAll Cultures

All cultures is an individual or committed couple who enjoys all sexual activities, they have no taboos and enjoy all fetishes. People that are in to all cultures tend to be free sprits, open minded and make great life long friends.

AnalAnal

Anal penetration, also known as Anal intercourse; The act of the anus being penetrated by an object or penis. During anal intercourse it is most common for the penis to be involved. Over the years and in ancient cultures anal intercourse may involve a toy, fruit, vegetable or other object. The act is commonly known as Anal-Penile intercourse. (See also Greek or Greek culture.)

AnallingusAnallingus

Anallingus, also known as Rim Job is oral stimulation of the anus and rim of the anus by a partner licking fast movements in the center of the anus opening and along the rim, or outside of the anus. Anallingus can also include light kissing, or mild sucking of the anus. Once performed the most common practice is the tongue moving in fast circular movements outside and even placing the tongue inside the anus to stimulate mood and heighten orgasms. During swinger intercourse anallingus is often used when a man is having sex with a woman in the cowgirl position and a third partner is administering to achieve an anal orgasm. (See also Rim Job).

ArtsArts

Fetishes. The practice of using non-sexual objects, actions, or non-genital anatomy to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure.

Back DoorBack Door

Anal sex or anal intercourse. (See also Anal)

BBWBBW

Big Beautiful Woman. Big Beautiful Woman. Larger than average woman that is very beautiful regardless of size or weight. (See also BHM)

BDSMBDSM

Bondage - Discipline - SadoMasochism. People who either enjoy pain or pleasure for arousal. (See also Masochism) (See also Bondage)

BHMBHM

Big Handsome Man. Refers to a sexually attractive fat man that is large to extremely large. (See also BBW)

BiBi

Short for bisexual. Someone that enjoys sex with both men and women.

Bi-CuriousBi-Curious

Someone that is curious, interested in or has had limited bisexual experience.

BondageBondage

Bondage is the practice of restraining a person(s) for sexual pleasure. Types of restraints may include ropes, chains, leather straps or cloth. The person performing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive". (See also BDSM)

Can EntertainCan Entertain

Can entertain means that someone is willing to invite others to their home and/or party or venue for swinging.

Can TravelCan Travel

is a swinger term, meaning the individual or couple is able to travel to a desired swinging location.

CDCD

Cross Dresser - A person who sometimes wears clothing associated with the opposite sex, generally referring to men that dress in women's clothes.

CleanClean

Free of sexually transmitted diseases. may also indicate that someone has trimmed pubic hair and or shaved smooth. (See also D&D Free)

CougarCougar

An older woman who sexually pursues men significantly younger than herself. Some definitions define the age difference as at least 8 years.

CoupleCouple

In swinging, two people, generally one male, one female that are participating together in the lifestyle. A swinger couple can be married or in an on going relationship and are usually living together.

CPLCPL

In swinging, two people, generally one male, one female that are participating together in the lifestyle. A swinger couple can be married or in an on going relationship and are usually living together.

CunnilingusCunnilingus

Cunnilingus is the stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by using the tongue mouth and lips, especially the tongue.

D&D FreeD&D Free

Someone who considers themselves disease and drug free. Generally this refers to being free of STDs and illegal drugs. You may also see this written as D/D Free or just DD.

DisciplineDiscipline

Spanking, bondage or similar practice intended to arouse sexual desire and pleasure.

Double PenetrationDouble Penetration

Often abbreviated as DP. Simultanious vaginal and anal penetration or sometimes simultanious vaginal penetration. Generally this refers to two men using their penises for penetration, but objects, fingers, or toes may also be used.

DPDP

Simultanious vaginal and anal penetration or sometimes simultanious vaginal penetration. Generally this refers to two men using their penises for penetration, but objects, fingers, or toes may also be used.

ExhibitionistExhibitionist

Someone who enjoys displaying their body and being watched generally to achieve pleasure and sexual arousal. An exhibitionist would enjoy having sex in a public place.

FF

Abbreviation for female. Within the lifestyle, you will see this used in personal ads and online profiles.

FellatioFellatio

is the sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips or teeth, used in a sucking motion. Slang terms include: blow job, head, and giving head.

FetishFetish

Sexual stimulation via non sexual acts or objects. For example, someone with a "shoe fetish" may use shoes for sexual stimulation and pleasure.

Full SwapFull Swap

An encounter between two couples that enjoy sexual pleasure with each other that includes anything up to and including intercourse. Also know as wife swapping, although this term is now less commonly used.

GayGay

Homosexual. Someone who is sexually attracted to the same sex, generally a male, but not always.

GBMGBM

Gay Black Man. A black male homosexual. Someone who is attracted to other men.

Group SexGroup Sex

Sexual activity between three or more people, which usually involves a full swap.

GWMGWM

Gay White Male. A white male homosexual. Someone who is attracted to other men.

HeterosexualHeterosexual

One who enjoys and has sex with only the opposite sex. Also known as being straight.

HomosexualHomosexual

Someone who is sexually attracted to the same sex, generally a male, but not always. (See also Gay)

HungHung

Refers to a male with a large penis. To be considered "hung", the penis should be around 7.5" in length or longer and thick.

HWPHWP

Height/Weight Proportionate. Someone that is not overweight or underweight.

Indoor SportsIndoor Sports

Is a slang term for swinging activities. Also known as just "Indoor".

ISOISO

In Search Of. Seen in profiles and personal ads.

Jacking offJacking off

Of a male, engaging in the act of masturbation

Kama SutraKama Sutra

Or: Kamasutra, the Indian manual of erotic love believed to have been written by the Hindu sage Vatsyayana sometime between the 3rd and 5th centuries AD, containing descriptions and illustrations of sexual-positions, recipes for aphrodisiacs, descriptions of ways of kissing and embracing a lover, and so on.

LesbianLesbian

Gay women. A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women.

LesbianLesbian

Gay women.

LTRLTR

Long Term Relationship. Used mostly in personal ads and online ads.

MM

Male. Used mostly in personal ads and online ads.

MasochismMasochism

is sexual gratification through receiving pain and also humiliation from others. Pain can range from whipping, caning, drawn blood and bruising. Humiliation can range form degrading acts to verbal abuse. (See also BDSM) (See also Caning)

MBCMBC

Married Black Couple. A black couple who is participating together in the lifestyle.

MBiC MBiC

Married Bi Couple. A couple participating in the lifestyle where at least one of them is bisexual.

MILFMILF

Mother I'd Like (to) Fuck. A sexually attractive female with children. Usually this is in reference to an older woman (age 30 - 50).

MoresomeMoresome

More than four people engaged in sexual activity. (See also Group Sex)

MWCMWC

Married White Couple. A white couple who is participating together in the lifestyle.

NSANSA

No Strings Attached. This means someone that wants to get together to swing without any sort of commitment or other relationship (other than sexual).

Off PremiseOff Premise

A swing club or party where there are no designated locations for play (sexual activity). This may or may not exclude the activity from actually taking place.

OrgyOrgy

Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room. Complete absence of inhibition in everyone taking part. (See also Group Sex) (See also Moresome)

P/PP/P

Photo/Phone. This is used in personal ads. For example, "P/P available upon request."

Quicktime sexQuicktime sex

Internet and computer jargon for a pornographic-movie animated by Quicktime software.

Reverse anal cowgirlReverse anal cowgirl

Female sitting astride the male, facing his feet, while engaged in anal-intercourse.

S&MS&M

Sadism/Masochism. Sadism is the pleasure in the infliction of pain or humiliation upon someone, while masochism is the pleasure in receiving the pain.

SafeSafe

In swinging, someone that is not at risk for becoming or causing a pregnancy.

SBFSBF

Single Black Female. In the lifestyle, a black woman that participates by herself (without bringing anyone else along). (See also Unicorn)

SBiFSBiF

Single Bi Female. In the lifestyle, a bisexual woman that participates by herself (without bringing anyone else along). (See also Unicorn)

SBiMSBiM

Single Bi Male. In the lifestyle, a bisexual man that participates by himself . Many swinging couples frown upon single males being in the lifestyle, so a single male may have a difficult time making lifestyle connections.

SBMSBM

Single Black Male. In the lifestyle, a male participating by himself, without a partner. Many swinging couples frown upon single males being in the lifestyle, so a single male may have a difficult time making lifestyle connections.

SGLSGL

Single. A person, male or female that is participating by themselves in the lifestyle.

SodomySodomy

"Unnatural" sex, usually anal sex or oral sex, possibly forced.

Soft SwapSoft Swap

Or soft swing/swingers is a couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to but not including intercourse.

STDSTD

Sexually Transmitted Disease. Also known as VD (venereal disease). An illness that is transmitted between humans by means of sexual behavior (vaginal intercourse, oral sex, or anal sex).

STRSTR

Straight, a heterosexual person, male or female. (See also STR8) (See also Straight)

STR8STR8

Straight, a heterosexual person, male or female. (See also STR) (See also Straight)

StraightStraight

Straight, a Heterosexual person, male or female. (See also STR) (See also STR8)

SwapSwap

Two couples exchanging partners. (See also Full Swap) (See also Soft Swap)

SWFSWF

Single White Female. In the lifestyle, a white woman that participates by herself (without bringing anyone else along). (See also Unicorn)

SWMSWM

Single White Male. In the lifestyle, a male participating by himself, without a partner. Many swinging couples frown upon single males being in the lifestyle, so a single male may have a difficult time making lifestyle connections.

thirty-ninethirty-nine

dialectical slang for oral-anal-sex , based on the ideograph (39) of a face buried between buttocks , the figure 3 being the buttocks and 9, the face . Note: Devotees of anilingus have a saying: ' Once you get past the smell, you've got it licked '. See anilingus for synonyms.

UnicornUnicorn

Slang for a single, generally bi-sexual female that participates in the lifestyle. Referred to as a "unicorn" because they are so rare.

VersatileVersatile

Another term for bi-sexual.

VoyeurVoyeur

One who enjoys watching.

VoyeurismVoyeurism

The act of watching others engaged in sexual activities.

Water SportsWater Sports

Also referred to as a golden shower. Urination involving sexual stimulation. This would be considered a fetish.

XenophileXenophile

Person sexually attracted to and aroused by strangers.

Yank his crankYank his crank

In relation to swinging, to tease a male sexually.

zipless fuckzipless fuck

Sex without emotional involvement or commitment, especially between strangers.

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Why Do People Become Involved In Swinging?

To understand why people become involved with swinging, one must understand what swinging is, what the lifestyle is about what one would experience as a couple.

The swinglifestyle or lifestyle as swingers call it is about being sexually liberated as a couple, and for both partners to engage in a soft or full swap sexual activity with another couple.

To enjoy the lifestyle to the fullest you need to ask yourself if you and your partner are soft swap or if you are full swap. Knowing this before you swing will allow you to enjoy the lifestyle to the fullest without any hidden surprises. Soft swap is when you and your partner interact with each other in the presence of another couple interacting.

Full swap is where everyone in the room agree to a full partner sharing session. Some people get into the lifestyle to fulfill a sexual fantasy for themselves and their partner. Some couples want to spice up their sex life by entering a soft swap and becoming turned on with another couple watching, or even daring to enter into a full swap for the extreme excitement. Regardless which swap a couple enters, they enter the lifestyle for fun, and excitement, it is not uncommon for couples to meet other couples and become lifelong friends with fellow swingers, some decide to remain friends without a sexual connection. Swingers also hold the record for the lowest divorce rate versus a non monogamous couple.